The remarkable thing about television is that it permits several million people to laugh at the same joke and still feel lonely.“   T.S. Eliot


Ray Romano's wife complained to Rolling Stone magazine that her husband spoke to his TV wife more in one episode than he spoke to her in one week at home.  "Well we have writers on the show," explained Romano. "If we had writers here, we'd be having long funny conversations."



"...the authors found that happy people were more socially active, attended more religious services, voted more and read more newspapers. In contrast, unhappy people watched significantly more television in their spare time." - ScienceDaily (Nov 2008) - More on the same study - Medical News Today (Nov 2008) and  The New York Times (Nov 2008)

 

"Teens who spend long hours watching television are at higher risk for depression as adults, a new study finds."  - Health News (Feb 2009) - More on this study - Los Angeles Times (Feb 2009)

 

"The team found that the people most satisfied with their lives were those who watched TV the least." - The Sydney Morning Herald (June 2005)

 

"For instance, compulsive viewers turn to television for solace when they feel distressed, rather than only watching favorite programs for pleasure. And though they get temporary emotional relief while watching, they end up feeling worse afterward." - The New York Times (Oct 1990)

 

 

8 Changes I Experienced After Giving Up TV

 

Tv Viewing Tied To Violence, Depression In Kids

 

"Youngsters are being turned into nothing more than "mini-adults" and are increasingly susceptible to depression and developmental problems as a result, they claim."

 

"There has been a "dramatically high" connection between the rise of television and a rise in depression among America's youth, says a Penn State University researcher."

 

"In a letter to The Daily Telegraph, 110 teachers, psychologists, children's authors and other experts call on the Government to act to prevent the death of childhood." They write: "We are deeply concerned at the escalating incidence of childhood depression and children's behavioural and developmental conditions."

 

"What most surprised me were the results I got from my study, which found that the more kids are exposed to consumer culture, they likelier they are to become depressed, suffer from anxiety, or experience low self-esteem. I would have thought it was the other way around — that consumer culture was the symptom, not the cause."

 

"Mental illnesses including anxiety disorders and depression are common and under-treated in many developed and developing countries, with the highest rate found in the United States, according to a study of 14 countries." - MSNBC (July 2004)

 

"A new study has found that five times as many high school and college students are dealing with anxiety and other mental health issues as youth of the same age who were studied in the Great Depression era." - USA Today (Jan 2010)

 

 


The Importance of Reading

 

Bibliotherapy - "Bibliotherapy is using books to heal, advise, teach, and comfort."

 

Want to Live Longer? Be Wealthier? And Happier? Here is the One PROVEN Secret: Reading!

 

Those Who Read Fiction Better at Reading People

 

Socially awkward? Hit the books

 

Reading For Pleasure

 

The therapeutic value of blogging becomes a focus of study

 

"... when it comes to preventing depression in teenagers, a self-help book might actually be more effective."

 

What Would Jane Do? How a 19th-century spinster serves as a moral compass in today's world

 



There are a number of ways that TV contributes to depression:


- Contrast Effect

- Boredom

- Traumatic TV

- Less Sleep

- Social Isolation

- Consumerism

- Depressed Society

- Assorted




Contrast Effect


TV is a combination of beautiful people, dressed by fashion experts, put into chic locations, surrounded by expensive toys, and given plotlines and dialogue by extremely bright, talented and funny writers.  No one can compare with that.


But compare we do, and in comparison our lives can seem pretty drab and pathetic.

 

Why I Hate Beauty (2008)

 

Why I Hate Beauty (2001)

 

The Beautiful People Syndrome

 

"Desperate Housewives and other TV soap operas may help make adolescent girls desperate for a thinness few can healthily achieve, new Australian research suggests." - HealthDay News (June 2005)

 

"We found men who were exposed to images of the so-called "ideal" male became more depressed and significantly more dissatisfied with the size and shape of their own muscular build once they were exposed to those commercials." - Ivanhoe Broadcast News (May 2005)

 

"The researchers say that by looking at idealized, sexualized women,  guys feel less-than because they start thinking they need to measure up on the attractiveness scale to snag such a mate."  - MSNBC (Nov 2008)

 

"The rail-thin blonde bombshell on the cover of a magazine makes all women feel badly about their own bodies despite the size, shape, height or age of the viewers. A new University of Missouri-Columbia study found that all women were equally and negatively affected after viewing pictures of models in magazine ads for just three minutes." - Science Daily (March 2007)

 

"Magazine ads featuring female fashion models have an immediate negative impact on a woman's self-esteem, according to a University of Toronto study published in the International Journal of Eating Disorders." - Science Daily (April 1999)

 

"Many studies have shown that media images of female models have had a negative impact on how woman view their own bodies, but does this same effect hold true when men view male models? A leading researcher of media effects on body image at the University of Missouri looked at the effect of male magazines on college-age men." - Science Daily (Nov 2008)

 

"A report of the American Psychological Association (APA) released today found evidence that the proliferation of sexualized images of girls and young women in advertising, merchandising, and media is harmful to girls' self-image and healthy development."

 

"A steady diet of exploitative, sexually provocative depictions of women feeds a poisonous trend in women's and girl's perceptions of their bodies, one that has recently been recognized by social scientists as self-objectification -- viewing one's body as a sex object to be consumed by the male gaze."


"Wolf goes on to tell us that Angelina has it all, she has Brad Pitt, first of all, but also she cares for "half a football team of children", does good deeds, all the while looking like...Angelina Jolie. And in so doing she shows all women that they too can have it all. I demur. Images can be made to look like they have it all, but people don't. The person Angelina Jolie undoubtedly has disappointments, messes up, and doesn't look like "Angelina Jolie" much of the time. But even more important than the fact that people don't have it all is that people don't need to have it all, and setting that up as a goal is a recipe for constant dissatisfaction. Be a celebrity atheist, give up on the conviction that celebrities prove there's a perfect life out there, and focus instead on doing your best in an imperfect but also kind of remarkable world." - Psychology Today Blogs (Aug 2009)






Boredom

 

"We wondered whether heavy viewers might experience life differently than light viewers do. Do they dislike being with people more? Are they more alienated from work? What we found nearly leaped off the page at us. Heavy viewers report feeling significantly more anxious and less happy than light viewers do in unstructured situations, such as doing nothing, daydreaming or waiting in line. The difference widens when the viewer is alone." - Scientific American (Feb 2002)

 

"Our culture's obsession with external sources of entertainment—TV, movies, the Internet, video games—may also play a role in increasing boredom. "I think there is something about our modern experience of sensory overload where there is not the chance and ability to figure out what your interests, what your passions are" - Scientific American (Feb 2007)


"Encouraging children to entertain themselves in mentally active and imaginative ways and to avoid passive, quick-fix entertainment could also reduce boredom. ”We provide children lots of entertainment in the form of television and iPods to prevent them from developing their inner skills to contend with boredom,“ Sundberg says. Engaging in active entertainment, such as playing sports or games, is also much more likely to produce flow, Csikszentmihalyi says. Developing ways to cope with boredom may even help cure other ills. For example, some research hints that if former drug addicts learn to deal effectively with boredom, they are less likely to relapse. In an ongoing study of 156 addicts at a methadone clinic at Beth Israel Medical Center in New York City, Todman found that the addicts’ reported level of boredom was the only reliable indicator of whether they would stay clean." - Scientific American (Dec 2007)






Traumatic TV


Tragedy on the Tube

 

Coping With Breaking News

 

Armchair shell shock

 

The 'mean-world' syndrome

 

"sleep disturbances and stomach ailments were frequently reported as resulting from a child's viewing of something frightening on TV"

 

TV viewing of Katrina affects children psychologically

 

"It is certainly a good thing to know what is going on. But being glued to the TV is not good. People who spend all of their time watching TV news coverage can become more frightened, more withdrawn, and maybe even more depressed."

 

Long-Term Memories of Frightening Media Often Include Lingering Trauma Symptoms

 

"Toddlers and young children who watch violent movies, including Halloween horror films, television shows or video games may be more likely to develop anxiety, sleep disorders, and aggressive and self-endangering behaviors."

 





Less Sleep

 

"Television Watching Before Bedtime Can Lead To Sleep Debt" - Science Daily (June 2009)

 

"Children With TVs Or Computers In Their Room Sleep Less" - Science Daily (Sept 2008)

 

Too much TV during the day could mean too little sleep for kids, according to a new study.

 

"Feelings of depression and low self-esteem plague children as they advance through middle school because they get increasingly less sleep, according to a new study of 2,259 Illinois students."

 

But it may be that insomnia is more than just a symptom of depression. It may in fact unleash the mood disorder.

 

Children With TVs Or Computers In Their Room Sleep Less


In Defense of a Good Night's Sleep

 

"A study in the Jan. 1 issue of the journal Sleep found that adolescents with bedtimes that were set earlier by parents were significantly less likely to suffer from depression and to think about committing suicide, suggesting that earlier bedtimes could have a protective effect by lengthening sleep duration and increasing the likelihood of getting enough sleep." - E! Science News (Jan 2010)






Social Isolation


"Sometimes people ask, ”If you had to pick just one thing, what would be the one secret to a happy life?“ The answer is clear: strong bonds with other people. If I had to pick one thing, that’s it. The wisdom of the ages and the current scientific studies agree on this point." - Psychology Today Blog (Nov 2009)


"The research provides evidence for the 'social surrogacy hypothesis,' which holds that humans can use technologies, like television, to provide the experience of belonging when no real belongingness has been experienced," says one of the study's authors, Shira Gabriel, Ph.D., UB assistant professor of psychology." - Science Daily (April 2009)

 

Childhood TV and gaming is 'major public health issue'

 

Parents, children lose art of conversation

 

The Decline of Civic Engagement or Trading the Elks Club For Seinfeld

 

(Study Reveals Negative Potential of Heavy Internet Use on Emotional Well Being)


TV also contributes to depression by causing social isolation.  The over 4 hours in front of the TV every day that Americans spend, is time not spent with friends and family.


As far as depression goes, staring at a blank wall is better for you than watching TV.  With a blank wall, people get bored and lonely, and then get up and do something.  If they feel lonely enough, they get up the courage to go speak to someone.  TV makes people feel like they have enough friends, and thus don't need to make an effort to make more friends.


"Americans are more socially isolated today than we were barely two decades ago." - Time Magazine (June 2006)

 

"Americans' Circle of Friends Is Shrinking" - Science Daily (June 2006)

 

"Researchers believe that in a media-orientated society, celebrities have taken the place of neighbors, relatives, friends and family for many people. They feel that the respect for family members has been replaced by worship of the famous, as this is the new method of associating with success." - Wikipedia

 

"the benefits of watching television when lonely, which seems to provide the same sort of emotional relief as spending time with real people" -  The Frontal Cortex (July 2009)

 

"They find that people who are anxious over and preoccupied with their real world relationships are more likely than others to feel an intense interpersonal connection to their favorite TV characters." -  Psychology Today Blog (Feb 2008)

 

"The best research confirms it: Americans are now perilously isolated. In a recent comprehensive study by scientists at Duke University, researchers have observed a sharp decline in social connectedness over the past 20 years." -  Psychology Today Blog (July 2009)

 

TV hogs the dinner table "As families become busier, they run the risk of developing the "home-alone-together" syndrome.  They live under the same roof, but co-exist separately in their own emotional silos."


Social Isolation Kills, But How and Why?

 

"But the researchers found that in collectivistic nations, such as East Asia, where nearly 80% of the population is genetically susceptible to depression, "the actual prevalence of depression is significantly lower than in individualistic nations, such as the United States and Western Europe."" - USA Today (Oct 2009)

 

Running Alone May Offer Diminished Rewards

 

"Exercising together appears to increase the level of the feel-good endorphin hormones naturally released during physical exertion, a study suggests." - BBC News (Sept 2009)

 

Being a loner reduces immunity and heart health

 

The perils of going solo

 

Loneliness Is Bad For Your Health


Because TV soothes low self-esteem people who are depressed will often seek out TV as a distraction.  But as with most addictions, the object of their desire just makes them feel worse.


"People with strong social ties live longer than those who are isolated. Making time for close relationships is as vital as many other things people do. Socially connected people are less prone to stress. "

 

"Relationships with other people are what make us the happiest"

 

"A network of good friends, rather than close family ties, helps you live longer in older age, suggests research in the Journal of Epidemiology and Community Health."

 

Updating the Helper Therapy Principle

 

"However, a recent study in Italy showed that people who had a television in the bedroom had half as much sex as those who didn’t, and that certain programmes – violent films and reality TV – were passion killers for one-third of couples."

 

 




Consumerism

 

What most surprised me were the results I got from my study, which found that the more kids are exposed to consumer culture, they likelier they are to become depressed, suffer from anxiety, or experience low self-esteem. I would have thought it was the other way around — that consumer culture was the symptom, not the cause."

 

A new study shows that kids who watch lots of TV ads are more likely to suffer from depression, anxiety, stomachaches and other problems.


Buying Happiness: The Depressing Reality of Materialism

 

"A new study suggests why sadness makes us want to buy: increased self-focus." -  Psychology Today Blog (Feb 2008)

 





Depressed Society

 

Evolution Of Despair by Robert Wright gives an excellent overview of the effects of modern society and television on people's psyches.


Public Health Clinic Study Links 'Americanization' And Depression

 

Depression rates rise over generations - studies show that younger persons are subject to the disorder more than in former years

 

"The authors also find that over the last century, Americans, both men and women, have gotten steadily—and hugely—less happy."


Researchers at Yale University have found that heavy TV viewing contributes to decreased attention spans and impatience with delay, as well as general feelings of boredom and distraction.






Assorted

 

Television and the Quality of Life: How Viewing Shapes Everyday Experience (1990)

 

CWRU STUDY LINKS HEAVY TV VIEWING TO PSYCHOLOGICAL TRAUMA

 

”People who procrastinate tend to be less healthy, less wealthy and less happy“ - with TV contributing to procrastination

 

Does Watching TV Make Us Happy? - Opportunity Costs & TV (PDF)






Happiness

 

"The Happiness Project, is an account of the year she spent test-driving studies and theories about how to be happier." - The Happiness Project

 

"After six months, women who had participated in art therapy showed significant improvements in their overall quality of life, general health, physical health, and psychological health;" -  Psychology Today Blog (April 2009)


"It's a Wonderful Life" – Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Depression" -  Psychology Today Blog (Dec 2009)




 

 

 

 




Recommended Websites


Bowling Alone 


Break Free… of TV 


Campaign For A Commercial-Free Childhood


Ellen Currey Wilson – The Big Turnoff 


I’m Missing All Of My Shows 


Instead of TV 


Media by Choice


Plato's Cave 


Screen Time 


Screen Time – Forum 


Television vs Children 


The Television Project


Trash Your TV 


Trash Your TV – Blog 


Turn Off Your TV 


TV Free Living 


TV Stinks 


Unplug Your Kids 


White Dot 


White Dot – Forum 


 


Recommended Articles


"Television Addiction Is No Mere Metaphor"

 

University of Otago research

 

Unplug Your Brain - by Jerry Mander

 

Why Turnoff Completely

 

What They Don't Want You To Know About Television and Videos

 

Excerpted from Endangered Minds - Kids' Brains Must Be Different


Strangers in Our Homes: TV and Our Children's Minds

 

1000 studies over 30 years

 

selling audiences to advertisers

 

How TV Teaches Stupidity

 

8 Changes I Experienced After Giving Up TV

 

Brainwaves and Nasa

 

Newsweek is Bad for Kids

 

Bowling Alone - The Strange Disappearance of Civic America

 

TV, Democracy and Torture

 

The Assault on Reason

 

Twilight of the Books

 

Evolution Of Despair

 

Alzheimer's & TV

 

Preventing Obesity

 

Trained to Kill

 

Mind-altering media

 

Effects of TV - Before & After


Eight Reasons Why TV is Evil


"What most surprised me were the results I got from my study, which found that the more kids are exposed to consumer culture, they likelier they are to become depressed, suffer from anxiety, or experience low self-esteem. I would have thought it was the other way around — that consumer culture was the symptom, not the cause."